Songs that Remind me of Specific Memories

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(Photo cred: Me, Boys Like Girls @ Playstation Theater, NYC 2016)

This post is exactly what it says in the title; nice and simple. Below are 6 songs that hold a great deal of meaning to me, be it places that I’ve travelled to or childhood memories, or ones that remind me of specific people in my life. I could have picked at least 20, but keeping up with my last post, I picked the first 5 that sprung into my head. If you want to hear what my 5 songs are, then keep on reading!

 

  1. DANIEL RUCKER – WAGON WHEEL

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hvKyBcCDOB4

This upbeat song reminds me of my time working at an American summer camp. I worked out in Rock Hill, New York for the past 2 summers and honestly they were the best times of my life.  The obvious choice! This is one of those songs that always manages to put a smile on my face. I picture the sunshine, the warmth, the smiles on everyone’s faces and just having a general good time. The upbeat melody never fails to get me moving, and the catchy nature of it sticks in your head for weeks. This is a song that without a shadow of a doubt brings up my best memories of camp, and especially driving down the open road in my first summer of 2016. It’s the ultimate road trip song, at home or abroad, and will guarantee to make you break out singing and dancing. It brings me closer to all my friends across the world, and that knowing we all have a home at Iroquois Springs summer camp.

 

  1. BOYS LIKE GIRLS – THUNDER

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ytLzxl4-mLw

This is one of my all-time favourites songs from one of my all-time favourite bands. This song reminds me of New York again, but for different reasons. I saw Boys Like Girls for the third time in Times Square, NYC, in my first summer at camp. It had been about 6 years since I had last seen them, and my teenage me couldn’t handle the excitement! To top it all off, they played at the Playstation Theatre which is a historic venue! This song is about summer love and finding someone who really made your summer and how you will always remember them. Some of the lyrics in the chorus specifically talk about someone’s voice being ‘the soundtrack of my summer,’ and how no matter what you will always remember the summer you spent with them. As a band in general they have helped me a lot growing up with bullying and constant shaming, but it also reminds me of a time over my summer where love existed in places where I thought it couldn’t anymore. It helped me find happiness, even if it was not meant to last.

 

  1. TINIE TEMPAH – TRAMPOLINE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VOeQZ6Bi7I

This song is more of a silly one, and a type of music that I’m not normally in to. This reminds of my first year studying at Sheffield Hallam University. Meeting your flat mates for the first time and living away from home is scary, but luckily I was blessed to have awesome flat mates. One of my flat mates was convinced that he knew all the lyrics to this song, and whenever it came on he would really try and sing it loud and proud. The rest of us thought it would be a great idea to learn the lyrics too, so we printed them out and pinned them onto our picture wall for us all to learn. Long story short, we never ended up learning any of the lyrics, but whenever I hear this song I think of me and my best friend trying to learn them for a laugh, and miserably failing to do so.

 

  1. JASON DERULO – WHATCHA SAY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pBI3lc18k8Q

This one reminds me of a young naïve me. 15-16-year-old me made a lot of mistakes, and really put my trust and time into the wrong people. This song reminds me of heartbreak; of being cheated on by someone that I thought the world of. It reminds me of my ex best friend going behind my back liking this guy who completely broke my heart, yet she was the one holding me when I cried my heart out. I should never have let him hurt me and looking back I shouldn’t have been so harsh on her about what she did. It just reminds me that everyone is not as they appear to be. I gave this guy a second chance a year later, only to be screwed over with again.  I remember him even saying that this song really reminded him of our situation, and that it was one of the biggest mistakes he had made.  The worst part? To this day he has never admitted to cheating on me, and never apologised to my face but instead sent me a pathetic voice mail recording that was so rehearsed it was just…yawn.  It is a song that reminds me that some people just don’t deserve another minute of your time or any second chances, and to not make that mistake again. Apologies can be worthless, and somebody like that trying to come back into your life is a definite no-no.

 

  1. PARAMORE – LAST HOPE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XoYu7K6Ywkg

I have always been a huge Paramore fan and will say that their music has taken a creative turn from their normal music. I have so much to say about this song, but I’ll try and keep it short and sweet. This song basically gives me hope; it gave me hope during last summer working at an American summer camp when I was losing hope in everything. I had personal relationship issues going on and was made to feel a lot of guilt, I was so miserable and no matter how many times I had tried talking about it, it ended up making things worse or nothing change. I felt worthless and like nothing; I was in a dark place in myself. I honestly cried every night wondering if things would ever get better. This song acted as a keepsake for me, as a reminder that I am STRONG no matter what. It reminds me that letting go of control is OK and it’s nothing to be scared of, and it’s ABSOLUTELY OK to have hope. Always have hope; that’s my motto here. Whenever anyone tells you to stop dreaming and believing, ignore them. This song honestly kept me going the entire summer and told me that tomorrow is a new day that brings new things, and that things will get better slowly. I owe a lot to Paramore for making this record and I’m going to link the live version because I believe that this version does the song a lot more justice than the recorded one.

 

  1. PAPA ROACH – LAST RESORT

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j0lSpNtjPM8

Finally, more my kinda music! This song is an absolute classic amongst rockers and is an anthem wherever it comes onto a stereo. I have quite an early childhood memory associated with this song. Every year up to the age of 12, my family and I would drive to France and go on family holidays for a couple of weeks. We would drive to the South coast, get the ferry across to France and drive to our campsite. My brother regularly wanted to put his music on the CD player and when he had his best friend with him, there was no other option but to let him play his music. He was really into his rock music at this time and this was his go-to song. My dad was never too much of a fan of it because of the swearing in it, so as a way around it my brother always used to use the word ‘Donald’ instead of a swear word. I still laugh about it now, and whenever I listen to it I always remember my brother shouting ‘DONALD!’ in the back of our car.

 

So there you have it! Just a few songs that remind me of places I’ve travelled to or of specific memories in my life. Everyone has their own songs to remind them of things; this is what is so great about music! What are your songs? I would love to hear what songs you have that remind you of great memories!

 

Stay beautiful,

Shannon
xoxo

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The Journey of our Friendship: A Summary

First blog post – yay!

This first post is about the journey of our friendship; where it started, how it’s grown and why it is never going to fade.  It also adds a bit of background and lets you readers know more about us!

Our friendship journey began at the start of our university lives.  From the first conversation as new roomies, although nervous, we knew instantly that we would become the best of friends (well, bestest baes as we call ourselves!)  From a pretty manic freshers week and instant freshers flu, to our weekly orders from Diddy Cool dessert takeaway (seriously, their waffles were just…oh my), we instantly started our new traditions.  We even ordered Diddy Cool the night before one of our exams just to calm our nerves down, and that is most certainly did!  Yummy brownies and ice cream cookie sandwiches were always the answer!  As we progressed into second year, we moved into a student house, where our Tuesday night tradition was ALWAYS watching Geordie Shore.  If one watched it without the other, well… it was not pretty, let’s just leave it there.

[Shannon] The hardest part of our friendship was when Tina left Sheffield to transfer to Nottingham Trent University. All I could think was ‘I’ve lost my best friend; this cannot be happening.  She is my partner in crime!’  But I knew it made Tina happy, so that instantly made me happy.  Despite me thinking initially the distance would cause us to drift, it has had the opposite effect.  Yes we see each other once a month, which is not enough cos we miss each other, but we are closer now more than ever.  We text every day, skype every fortnight or talk on the phone; we act like a couple!  When we see each other, we ALWAYS go out for pizza and a night out, and more recently we now have an unhealthy obsession with granola and yoghurt.  I know it has been around since the dawn of time or whatever, but it seriously is AMAZING.   It is incredible how we have not let the distance faze us and we still get to share the same experiences that we would have at the same university with each other at different universities.

[Tina] Throughout my life I have always wanted someone who I can tell everything and anything to and not have to worry about what they think or whether they will judge me. When our friendship began to blossom, I realised Shannon was the best friend that I had always wanted. Finding a friendship like this is one in a million and I wouldn’t change it for the world!

The main point of this blog was to give you an insight into our friendship, and to show how location and distance will never cause relationships to fade. Who knew that two girls from different parts of the country, living next door to each other, in a bug infested flat, would get so close? If you want it to work, then it works!  Our friendship is an example of that.  Friendship to us is so important and we know now that we have kept it so strong so far, that here we have a friendship for life.

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xoxo